The Boy Scout and I still have things we are finding out about each other. One reason for that is that in the past neither of us were very “safe” receivers of each others hearts. I had a way of weaponizing information and, truthfully, so did he. The other reason is that we are just getting to know ourselves in ways we never dreamed was possible. I am unable to share what I am not aware of.

Today, he shared a sweet part of his heart. We were talking about neighbors and how much gratitude we have for the people on our street. Yesterday the two kids from next door came over with two “Valentimes” cupcakes. "Happy Valetimes", they say with glee as he opens the door. They brought two but they only have eyes for him. It’s the Boy Scout they absolutely love and he loves them back. He could not stop smiling  

Later, he says to me, “One thing that makes me feel the presence of God is with children. It’s like He said, “I know you wanted kids and didn’t get them but I’ve made sure that kids and dogs just love you”. He is right. Kids and dogs love that man. Maybe it is his deep voice but more likely it is his childlike willingness to get down to their level. He plays peekaboo in restaurants (and never seems to tire of it), waves at any kid walking by and they all seem to love it. Kids that know him light up when they see him.

I enjoy the interaction and how unconditional he is with them. It is definitely a gift.